Why You’re Getting Ghosted + Easy Law Of Attraction Fix
Why you are getting ghosted by your specific person and how to change that with the law of attraction and manifesting!
Is your specific person ghosting you?
Did you go on a date with someone and had a wonderful time and everything looked great, only for them to never call or text you again?
Is someone you like not responding to your messages and not picking up when you call them?
If you’re upset about this I don’t blame you. Being ghosted sucks.
The good news, however, is that if you are using the law of attraction in your love life, you can turn things around!
Most ghosting cases fall into one of 4 categories, and in this post I’m going to explain each different category so that you can identify which one is the case for you, and tell you exactly what to do in each case to end the ghosting cycle for good!
Sounds good? Then read on, my friend!
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WHAT IS GHOSTING?
According to Wikipedia, this is how ghosting is defined:
Ghosting is a colloquial term used to describe the practice of ceasing all communication and contact with a partner, friend, or similar individual without any apparent warning or justification and subsequently ignoring any attempts to reach out or communicate made by said partner, friend, or individual. The term originated in the early 2000s. In the following decade, media reported a rise in ghosting, which has been attributed to the increasing use of social media and online dating apps.
So what are the different cases of why you’re being ghosted, and what’s the fix for each one?
CASE NO. 1 – WHEN THIS IS THE FIRST TIME YOU’VE BEEN GHOSTED
This is the case where you haven’t been ghosted by anyone before and you have also not been using the law of attraction to manifest a relationship with this specific person that is now ghosting you.
If you haven’t been repeatedly ghosted in the past that’s good news, because it means you don’t have a pattern of being ghosted in your life.
In this case, the solution is pretty easy:
Come up with an imaginal scene that -for it to happen- it presupposes that your desire, the end result that you want, has already happened.
For example if you want to be in a relationship with this person then create a short imaginal scene where you are celebrating Thanksgiving with their family. Since celebrating Thanksgiving with their family as a couple would presuppose that you are in a relationship already, this is a great imaginal scene to use.
When you have your mental scene, make sure it’s from a first-person perspective -meaning you are looking out of your own eyes in your scene instead of just watching yourself play in the scene as if you’re watching a movie- and then get into a relaxed, meditative state and play your scene over and over again in your mind.
Do that every day for as long as it feels pleasant to you and your desire will soon manifest!
CASE NO. 2 – WHEN YOU HAVE A PATTERN OF GETTING GHOSTED
This is the case where you haven’t been using the law of attraction to manifest a romantic relationship with this person but you have a pattern of getting ghosted by men/women after dates.
The solution in this case comes in the form of a technique called Revision.
Revision is a visualization technique by Neville Goddard that you can use to change and re-write events from your past.
The logic here is that if you go and change every instance in the past where you got ghosted then you won’t have a pattern of getting ghosted anymore, because for you to have a pattern, it needs to have happened several times in the past, right?
Change the past, and you will change who you are know and the things you automatically attract and manifest with the law of attraction.
If you want to learn how to use the Revision Technique then check out this article I’ve written.
CASE NO.3 – WHEN YOU’VE BEEN MANIFESTING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE PERSON WITH THE LAW OF ATTRACTION AND YOU MESSED WITH THE MIDDLE
In manifesting, there is a term that comes from Neville Goddard that explains many of the cases where someone got partial results or ruined a manifestation.
The term is “messing with the middle”.
What is the middle, you ask?
In order to manifest absolutely any desire, the steps are the following:
- Decide what you want.
- Come up with a scene that would happen if and only if your desire had already manifested (see Thanksgiving dinner in Case 1 for example)
- Relax into a meditative state and play this scene in your mind over and over from a first-person perspective.
- Live from the end, meaning live as if your desire has already manifested.
As you can see, to manifest any desire, you need to be focused on the end result having already happened.
A mistake many people do is that they will do the process above, but then they will focus on manifesting something that’s before that end result they actually want. That focusing on the events before the end result is called “messing with the middle”.
For example, let’s say that you want to manifest marrying this person who is now ghosting you.
So you did the process outlined above and created a mental scene where where you are at Thanksgiving dinner with this person’s family and you and this person are already married in the scene.
Focusing on any event before this is messing with the middle.
The events that happen between you doing the visualization and the time you get married are not your job to manifest. If you focus on this scene you created then these in-between events will unfold on their own in the most perfect way to get you to your end goal (marrying this person).
And messing with the middle often has negative results. Like the person suddenly ghosting you for no reason, for example.
The solution here is very simple:
Stop messing with the middle, refocus on your imaginal scene about the end result you want (eg. the Thanksgiving dinner scene) and everything that needs to happen to get you to that result will happen automatically, in the best possible way for you.
CASE NO. 4 – WHEN YOU’VE BEEN MANIFESTING THIS PERSON WITH THE LAW OF ATTRACTION BUT YOU ALSO USED OTHER METHODS
This is the case where you’ve been using the law of attraction, but you also used other methods to manifest a relationship with this person, such as magick spells, sending energy, whispering in their ear etc.
First of all, if you wanted a relationship or marriage with this person but then you started using manifestation techniques or the law of attraction or sending energy or whispering in their ear or whatever to get them to say something specific or ask you out again in think about you like many many people do, then this is messing in the middle and it messes things up (see case no. 3 above for more details).
The other reason this contributed to you getting ghosted though is that using all those different methods on this person made them feel the pressure subconsciously, so they are reacting as if you have been bombarding them with messages 24/7 (even if all you did was visualize).
To fix this, stop using any method that is not geared towards the end result you want and messes with the middle, and stop using any method that includes sending energy or whispering or anything like that because these methods put pressure on the person and your specific person can feel this pressure.
This is why many books or such methods have a warning that says your loved one may initially react badly and get pissed at you or start avoiding you. That’s because they can feel the pressure even if they have no clue what you’re doing and even if they don’t believe in such stuff.
So these are the four different cases of what may have gone wrong that manifested in you getting ghosted.
I hope this post helps you to change things around and manifest the relationship your heart desires, whether that’s with this person or with someone new!
By the way, if you want to manifest a relationship with a specific person with the law of attraction but don’t know where to start then check out my 21-Day Manifest Your Specific Person course where I walk you through the process step-by-step so that you can get the best results possible while avoiding all the problems (like ghosting!).
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